How To Ask ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’
How To Ask ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’One of the most frequently asked questions is ‘How do I ask – Will you Be My Bridesmaid?’ Once you have decided on which girls you would like to be in the wedding party, finding the right time and location is the next step. In addition to how and where to ask the girls, be prepared for Plan B. Sometimes for any number of reasons the girls who you would like to be attendants will decline. At least they are being honest, maybe the reason is financial, maybe it is too much of a time commitment. Do not take it personally! WHO TO ASK FIRST ASKING A FLOWERGIRL CHOOSE A LOCATION ASK FROM THE HEART Be prepared to answer lots of questions like who will pay for what? and what your expectations are. This is the best time to establish guidelines about who makes the final decision on important matters and what is important to you – be very clear on that. If your best buddy declines the invitation to be your bridesmaid, respect her honestly and remain good friends, maybe you could find and alternate responsibility for her. |